Heartache

 I have a very dear friend who is currently most undeservingly suffering from a shattered heart. This woman is such a wonderful person and I am truly blessed to have her as a friend to the end. 

The fact that she was treated the way she was.. the mind games and silent treatments were hard to understand on my part. 

Why would a man do that to a woman who has done nothing but support him and be there through thick and through thin? I just don't understand the logic in that.. who does that??

I wish I could tell her that I know how she feels, but I can't as each heart break is different from the rest. 

I wish I could tell her that she'll be OK and that she's not alone and there truly is someone out there for her.

I wish I could tell her not to give up and to rise above this.. to persevere and know that no matter how much the odds are stacked up against her things will get better. 

I wish I could tell her that she will truly be OK because that's just how she rolls to be honest.. no matter what happens to her she always bounces back. 

I have had my heart broken many times which I now see is partly my fault as I'm a hopeless romantic who wears my heart on my sleeve. I will be the first to admit that well I fall in LOVE too easily... and I also have a hard time following my gut instinct when those red lights flash in my head.. I will instead listen with my heart. The heart will lead you astray.. I've found that it's best to listen to them both.